What is Bullying

What is Bullying?

Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among school-aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated or has the potential to be repeated over time. Bullying includes actions such as making threats, spreading rumors, attacking someone physically or verbally and excluding someone from a group on purpose – StopBullying.gov.

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Types of Bullying

There are three types of bullying:

  1. Verbal bullying is saying or writing mean things. Verbal bullying includes:
    1. Teasing
    2. Name-calling
    3. Inappropriate sexual comments
    4. Taunting
    5. Threatening to cause harm
  1. Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes:
    1. Leaving someone out on purpose
    2. Telling other children not to be friends with someone
    3. Spreading rumors about someone
    4. Embarrassing someone in public
  1. Physical bullying involves hurting a person’s body or possessions. Physical bullying includes:
    1. Hitting/kicking/pinching
    2. Spitting
    3. Tripping/pushing
    4. Taking or breaking someone’s things
    5. Making mean or rude hand gestures

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There are many other types of aggressive behavior that don’t fit the definition of bullying. This does not mean that they are any less serious or require less attention than bullying. Rather, these behaviors require different prevention and response strategies.

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